Don't apologize.. this is always a good topic to bring up now and again.. There is a lot of misunderstanding and misinformation out there...
For me, when I pull up to a pump I avoid the 10% ethanol even if it means paying a bit more for it.. the ethanol really gums things up... So, my priority in selection is to avoid ethanol at all costs... I even once pulled in to a station with my fuel light on and on reserve, all they had was ethanol added gas so I actually road on down the road a bit and fortunately at the next station I was able to get non-ethanol gas.. and I believe I rolled in on my last drop of fuel and fumes... but it was worth it..
Also, I have heard many say they use the higher price gas because it 'cleans' the system.. Well, again, I prefer to just add seafoam to my tank to keep things clean, along with a good fuel filter.. I haven't really run the numbers but I feel that I save in the long run...
Another that I do that helps, is regular oil changes and clean air filters..
In my experience and opinion, my money is better spent on the seafoam, fuel filters, oil and air filter than on higher priced higher octane fuel...