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Chopper Rick
02-15-2006, 04:23 PM
Sorry i haven't be posting as of late but my job takes me on the road alot so i'm not able to get on here as often as i would like too.

Anyone who reads or post on other biker forums may have noticed that on some of those sites you'll ask a question about a particular problem your facing with your bike & the next thing you know your hit with attacks, your called an idiot or there'll throw the F word at you for asking what they perceive is a dumb question. Or your'll give an opinion that's totally different from someone elses & again you get attacked & in some cases even thrown off there forum. Even mention that you ride a Jap bike & the insults start coming.

What i'm getting at is this, what i like about the Hondarebelforum is that you can ask alot dumb questions or even go as far as sticking your own foot in your mouth when asking questions & not be called an idiot or some other name & because of that, i feel you can walk away from this site knowing that you've learned something about a particular repair or problem you've been facing. The relentless quest for knowledge & the good natured attitude from the members of this board & there willingness to help & teach a fellow biker as myself & others as made my experience here fun & enjoyable. A big thank you to the admin & all the other members of this small family for making this such a great fun helpful outlet.

Chopper Rick

cTc
02-15-2006, 04:55 PM
I can start by saying that one such individual is part of the reason for this forum being here.

I feel that it only takes one person to ruin a forum, and when that one person is allowed to do so on a regular basis, regardless of the contributions, there has to be actions taken, and when they are not, its not a place many members want to be.

Its one of my main goals to make 100% sure this forum dosent get into that category.

I am in the process of making some MAJOR changes here that will make the hondarebelforum.com a place to find everything one might need for their rebel. Kind of a one stop shop for rebelers.

It dosent matter if a question has been asked once, or a million times, its info that a person is looking for. And I can tell you there are some good people here who you will never have any such problems with. And should a rouge trouble maker see fit to set in, the problem will be address and taken care of in a proper fashion.

Life is hard enough without idiots trying to beat you down because you are looking for information to help your situation. And we're here to help.

Thanks for the words of praise as I am sure others will off the same thanks.

Glad you enjoy the forum.

Chopper Rick
02-15-2006, 06:31 PM
"I am in the process of making some MAJOR changes here that will make the hondarebelforum.com a place to find everything one might need for their rebel. Kind of a one stop shop for rebelers."

That's great! that's something i've wanted to see for a long time. I'm looking forward to that.

"I feel that it only takes one person to ruin a forum, and when that one person is allowed to do so on a regular basis, regardless of the contributions, there has to be actions taken, and when they are not, its not a place many members want to be."

Your so right. So many times i've seen on other forums where to many are arguing over littles things like why my bike is better than your bike. There's to much crap going on & not enough learning.

"Its one of my main goals to make 100% sure this forum dosent get into that category."

Which is why i'll stick with this forum anytime of the day over the others.

Chopper Rick

GearJammer
02-16-2006, 12:30 AM
Right on, cTc! You worded it PERFECTLY! (And I can confirm that cTc says what he means & means what he says)

I've been on the Internet for a good number of years, on a wide variety of boards, some rough 'n tumble, some simply out of control due to no overseeing of the troublemakers. It gets OLD & it's a great disservice to others who are serious-minded & looking to learn something about the passion we call "motorcycling".

For me, it doesn't matter how much someone may know (or think they know, or claim to know)...if they can't conduct themselves with appropriateness & patience towards others, then their knowledge is worthless to me. And ya know what ? There's always someone else out there who is readily willing & able to supply the sought after info freely & without being an a**.

Before frequenting a board without limits, I'll do without any board at all. This is another reason that I'm extremely thankful to cTc & the others here for providing a place where one can feel comfortable.

Don't let the lamebrains get you down, Chopper Rick. Surround yourself with good people & good vibes. Keep your focus on those things which are rewarding & gratifying. The rest can waste their lives away accomplishing nothing more than illustrating just how shamefully shallow their lives are. It's real basic psychology: Those who feel a need to demean & insult others for no reason are people who are trying to hide their OWN insecurities. And the older I get, the QUICKER I am to cut those types of people loose.

"Respect Is Hard-earned & Easily Lost"....unfortunately, there's no shortage of folks out there who don't even know the meaning of the word.

Ride Safe........

Chopper Rick
02-16-2006, 01:47 AM
"Don't let the lamebrains get you down, Chopper Rick. Surround yourself with good people & good vibes. Keep your focus on those things which are rewarding & gratifying. The rest can waste their lives away accomplishing nothing more than illustrating just how shamefully shallow their lives are. It's real basic psychology: Those who feel a need to demean & insult others for no reason are people who are trying to hide their OWN insecurities. And the older I get, the QUICKER I am to cut those types of people loose."

Gearjammer, it doesn't get me down it's just something that i noticed on some of the boards i go on that there always seems to be a few guys out there that spend more time throwing crap around instead of helping others. And many times the mods will say nothing & allow it to continue & will even join in on the attacks. As for me i don't waste my time joining in on that kind of stuff, i'm not interest in it nor do i wish to spend my time seeing who the biggest d*** is.

Chopper Rick

GearJammer
02-16-2006, 11:43 AM
Chopper Rick wrote: "Gearjammer, it doesn't get me down it's just something that i noticed on some of the boards i go on that there always seems to be a few guys out there that spend more time throwing crap around instead of helping others. And many times the mods will say nothing & allow it to continue & will even join in on the attacks. As for me i don't waste my time joining in on that kind of stuff, i'm not interest in it nor do i wish to spend my time seeing who the biggest d*** is."

Bingo! LMAO!

Unfortunately, that's a common problem on a LOT of boards & when you consider "biker boards" & the "macho" aspect commonly associated with the scene, it can get over the top. You'll also notice that most biker boards get even WORSE during the winter months when people are going thru cabin fever. BUT, it doesn't have to be that way. All it takes is a webmaster who's willing to spell out the guidelines & then stick by them & we've got one here who goes by the handle of "cTc" :wink:

Believe me, "appropriate" boards are the exception rather than the rule. I've seen other boards that manage to contain the b.s., but once again, they ARE rare. Over the years, I've even seen some boards where there wasn't much (if any) control being exercised by the webmaster(s) & some of those boards turned into nothing but pure chaos with nothing of value to even go there for anymore.

I can't empthacize (sp) enough just how REFRESHING it is for cTc to have created this site. The only "downside" is that in finding a decent place like this, I spend w-a-y too much time on a computer! ROTFLMAO!!!!!

Snorebaby
02-16-2006, 01:01 PM
I agree. This forum is a great place to be a member! I cannot express my gratitude enough to even come close to how I feel about EVERYONE on here. I have been helped without question or ridicule by all. There are no "dumb" questions (Lord knows I probably asked a few of them!). If there were then there would be no questions asked. You will never know if you don't ask!!

Some of the other sites I have looked at, as Chopper Rick has mentioned, either rudely give you some off the wall answer or don't even bother to answer at all. This board is my "internet family". I have met some great folks on here and consider them my friends. Friends help friends without question. I check the board at least a few times a day for new posts as I want to learn as much as possible and maybe I can help others with my limited knowledge.

I know CTC started this board as a way to help people and that is EXACTLY what it is. I will be a member for as long as this board is up (and y'all will have me LOL!) I just hope that everyone who visits this board can see that and that makes this the best one on the net IMHO.

Keep up the good work CTC and let's make this the place to go for answers.

To all the members THANK YOU!!

Chopper Rick
02-17-2006, 05:58 PM
"Believe me, "appropriate" boards are the exception rather than the rule. I've seen other boards that manage to contain the b.s., but once again, they ARE rare. Over the years, I've even seen some boards where there wasn't much (if any) control being exercised by the webmaster(s) & some of those boards turned into nothing but pure chaos with nothing of value to even go there for anymore. "

I couldn't agree with you more Gearjammer. I remember in early 2000 a sports entertainment company that i had worked for in the past that had gotten so out of control. There was mismanagement and in some cases no management to be found to take care of all the politics & egos that were taking control which inturn eventually killed the company.

Chopper Rick

Chopper Rick
02-17-2006, 06:30 PM
"Some of the other sites I have looked at, as Chopper Rick has mentioned, either rudely give you some off the wall answer or don't even bother to answer at all."

Snorebaby, you are so right with that comment which is one of the reasons i love this board so much. Guys like you, Gearjammer, CtC & others, ( sorry if i left some names out) really care about helping & sharing there experiences, knowledge & there passion for biking. This truly is like a family.

Chopper Rick

GearJammer
02-17-2006, 10:57 PM
Then it's settled....forget those other flop-houses & stick around here, Brother! ROTFLMAO!

Having to re-adjust a bit here in the "real" world situation, but hope to be able to drop by as often as possible. Sanctuary is getting harder & harder to find in this day & age, but this site is definitely one of them! :wink:

Are (yes it is my name!)
02-20-2006, 01:22 PM
"Some of the other sites I have looked at, as Chopper Rick has mentioned, either rudely give you some off the wall answer or don't even bother to answer at all."

Agreed.....some sites(or the people there) treat you like a hostile intruder...I very often see the frace "search and shut up" or: http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a85/are-mnja/bart_google.jpg

I'll admit the last one is a bit funny, but it's not exactly a warm welcome :?

uneasyrider
02-23-2006, 12:13 PM
I can start by saying that one such individual is part of the reason for this forum being here.

I feel that it only takes one person to ruin a forum, and when that one person is allowed to do so on a regular basis, regardless of the contributions, there has to be actions taken, and when they are not, its not a place many members want to be.

Its one of my main goals to make 100% sure this forum dosent get into that category.

And THAT individual has been VERY quiet lately.

Howard

Are (yes it is my name!)
02-23-2006, 12:50 PM
hmm..I wonder who that could be :shock: ?


when I think about it, I think I know afterall :?

cTc
02-23-2006, 12:59 PM
I can start by saying that one such individual is part of the reason for this forum being here.

I feel that it only takes one person to ruin a forum, and when that one person is allowed to do so on a regular basis, regardless of the contributions, there has to be actions taken, and when they are not, its not a place many members want to be.

Its one of my main goals to make 100% sure this forum dosent get into that category.

And THAT individual has been VERY quiet lately.

Howard

I can only imagine how nice it must be. But could well be to little to late.


hmm..I wonder who that could be :shock: ?


when I think about it, I think I know afterall :?

Probably an easy guess :wink: